Freedom is not maintained by emotion. It is maintained by strategy. These tools help you build one.
A complete freedom toolkit for less than the cost of one counseling session.
Only $99 ($250 value)
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If you desire to save your marriage after betrayal, there is one thing you MUST do - help your wife heal from the trauma you caused. The effects of betrayal trauma are as real and devastating as soldiers who have PTSD. If left unhealed, the long-term effects will sabotage a marriage and could destroy not only her mental health but physical health as well. You CAN BE her hero, even after betrayal - this journal is a must have for every relationship post-betrayal.
Is your approach to emotional intimacy a little "ape-ish?" We got you covered. Operation Empathy Cards is a practical tool to help you build a deeper connection with your spouse using fun and engaging daily activities to cultivate empathy, ignite passion, and grow your relationship.
Is it possible to forgive and move on? How can we determine ifwe've forgiven those who've hurt us? How can we be sure someone is truly repentant? Can you really be forgiven of all sins? Roots of Forgiveness uses biblical principles to help you take a deeper look at your unhealed wounds and those you've caused others. The book provides practical steps to forgive and how to seek forgiveness from others. At the root of healing is forgiveness - without it you'll stay stuck and so will those who you've hurt.
Change happens when you stop making excuses and make a plan. Without a plan, you'll repeat the same junk that keeps you stuck. The Accountability Tracker is a vital tool for your success on the road to freedom and restoration.
The Word of God is a sword and a crucial weapon in your arsenal.We've attached 52 key scriptures to an O-ring so that you can choose one a week to study and memorize. Keep it in your wallet or attached to your keychain.
The Three Dailies 30 day challenge card helps you keep track of your daily entries. Use it as a daily accountability tool as you work towards strengthening your marriage.
Three simple daily practices to help build intimacy, strengthen your relationship, heal wounds, and deepen your connection with your spouse. Starting each day with these three simple practices will make a lasting impact.
The Wheel of Emotions found in The Three Dailies set makes it easy for you to identify your thoughts and emotions as you complete your three daily tasks.
No matter where you are in your journey, every soldier striving to conquer temptation needs a battle plan to safeguard their sexual integrity and marriage. Safeguarding Sobriety is a strategic tool in your Conquer arsenal that will help you:
Men who go to battle without a plan to hold them accountable are more likely to relapse!
The Safeguarding Challenge cards are a companion tool to the Safeguarding Sobriety journal. The cards are designed to challenge your faith as you renew your mind towards freedom. Each card highlights an essential practice every believer should incorporate into their lives.
Empathy isn't innate, but a learned skill needed in marriage. You practice empathy by listening and validating others. It's a simple and practical tool that takes just a moment of your time to do something that will deepen your relationship and help you build empathy.
There are sixty cards provided in a set with a simple writing prompt. Each day you'll choose a card and write a sentimental, funny, or spicy message to your wife depending on the prompt. For example, "I can't get enough....." You fill out the blank!
Leave the note on her pillow or surprises her and hide it somewhere she's sure to find it throughout the day. These simple little gestures will make her feel valued and will strengthen your empathy and build a healthy emotional connection with your wife.
The Romans Dog Tag is a great way to remind yourself that you are a CONQUEROR and Christ has given you all you need to overcome.
We've added some flair to the Conquer Can with silicon bracelets, stickers, and our signature Conquer Coin to help remind you that the battle is worth it for yourself, your wife, family, and most importantly your relationship with Christ. The battle for sexual purity can be won - you are more than a CONQUEROR!
This powerhouse of original Conquer resources is based on biblical principles. This arsenal comes packed in an authentic military ammo can. The kit will help you to:
Invest in your healing - it's worth it. Makes a great gift too.
$99 (retail value $220)
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