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Join Dr. Doug Weiss as he reveals powerful tools to restore your marriage and rebuild a life of sustained sexual integrity.
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How to Live Permanently Free from Porn
Hosted by Dr. Doug Weiss, acclaimed Christian sex-therapist, psychologist, and author, Warpath provides practical tools to help you live permanently free from porn. As a follow-up to the Conquer Series, Warpath equips men for battle so they can remain free for life. Through this series, you will learn how to retrain your brain, become destiny conscious, overcome childhood wounds, and reverse the damage from unhealthy behaviors. You will also discover tips and strategies to reclaim your marriage, walk through the steps for healthy disclosure, and minimize collateral damage. Join us on the Warpath and start living a life of freedom today!
Retrain the Brain
Retrain your brain to become destiny-conscious instead of being driven by disease.
Receive powerful tools for overcoming childhood wounds and past pain.
Gain the keys to understanding your true identity.
Learn how to reverse the damage caused by unhealthy past behaviors.
Discover tips and strategies for reclaiming your marriage and helping your partner heal.
Walk through the steps of healthy disclosure to minimize collateral damage.
Step Into your Destiny
Identify the limiting beliefs that have been holding you back and learn how to overcome them.
Develop healthy coping mechanisms to manage stress, anxiety, and depression.
Find new ways to connect with your partner and deepen your intimacy.
Create a vision for your future and learn how to set achievable goals.
Understand the impact of trauma on the brain and learn strategies to promote healing.
Discover how to cultivate a growth mindset and embrace a positive outlook on life.
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“Soul Refiner is a prayer request come true for our church! The entire platform encompasses support for all those of affected by the deleterious effects of sexual immorality in the church community.”
Men’s Pastor, Calvary Chapel Chino Hills
“I use Soul Refiner in my counseling ministry. 90% of the men that come into my office for marital issues realizes that the root of the problem is pornography... We're truly seeing marriages restored!”
Dr. Joseph Wasmond
Living Legacy International
“That freedom, I wouldn't exchange it for anything. It's what God has for me for the rest of my life.”
Warpath contains 29 episodes, each with about 30 minutes of powerful and practical teaching
This is no longer boot camp. This is war. Identity is foundational because your identity determines your destiny. Sexual sin was Satan’s masterplan to destroy the identity of Christ in you. As a free man, this is the first area in your Warpath that must be restored. We will cover this in-depth in this first module.
The DNA of a Warrior
In the Bible, God separates fighting men from civilians. In this new season, you've been drafted to war.It's crucial that you grasp your identity. The warrior DNA is unique and it's imperative for you to understand and unlock it.Dr.Weiss will gear you up for the battle with his powerful teaching on the hero DNA and will introduce you to the disciplines and principles that every warrior must follow.
A Warrior's Roadmap
Understanding your story in full is like having a roadmap that gives you direction and an overview of the battle that took place. In this episode, you will discover how trauma doesn't just get stored in your brain, but in your body also.Dr.Weiss will help you write out your story and teach you practical ways to release unprocessed pain and anger so you can leave the burden of the past behind you once and for all - at the Cross.
There were many casualties in this war. If you're married, the one who suffered the most was, most likely, your wife.Many men will find themselves struggling to rebuild their wives' trust. Dr. Weiss will introduce you to betrayal trauma, disclosure, and empathy 101 and help you understand how you can come alongside your wife and reclaim her wounded heart.
The DNA of Destiny
If the enemy can seduce you, he can reduce you. Your spiritual authority is based on your sexual integrity. In this episode, Dr. Weiss will teach you how to reclaim your spiritual authority and help you move from being disease-conscious to becoming destiny-conscious. He will give you the keys to continue living an exposed life which is crucial to your warpath.
A Royal Mandate
Do you understand that you're a son of the Most High? The King of kings? This lesson lays out your royal mandate.You will learn to establish your duty of discipline, the importance of having a target and creating a dreamscape for your destiny.In this episode, Dr.Weiss will teach you to declare war and prepare you for the next level in your warpath where the journey will get more challenging, but rewarding.
Trauma is real. To find complete healing, we have to face and process our scars. As warriors, God has designed us with the ability to retrain and reprogram our minds and healing the invisible wounds is key to this process. This module is designed to help you identify the remaining wounds, old patterns, and damaging beliefs that continue to keep you from experiencing healing in your innermost being. In the weeks ahead, you will discover how God can reframe your woundedness and experience His victory in the places of your deepest scars.
War on Your Worth
We were created to be warriors, but we often fail to recognize the unprocessed wounds that continue to sabotage and impede our growth. Dr. Weiss will introduce you to the different types of abuse and neglect and show you how to identify and permanently heal from your invisible wounds. Your battle scars no longer have to be indelible insignias of shame, but symbols of victory: the place where Christ won the war on your worth.
Decoding the Messages of Lies
This week, we’re going deeper. Once you identify your wounds, the next step is to uncover the lies that the enemy embedded in your battle scars. In this episode, you’ll learn to recognize the lies that continue to skew the narrative of your life. You’ll also learn powerful tools to dismantle those lies and replace them with God’s truth.
Worthy was Won
By which standard do you measure your worth? In his episode, Dr. Weiss will show you the difference between self-esteem and God esteem. You’ll be equipped to deal with those areas of your self-worth that have been tied to things other than Christ. The goal is to establish real, permanent worth - a worth that’s founded on Jesus.
Your sexuality is an important part of your life, but because of the choices that we made in the past, many of us continue to have shame, guilt, and condemnation surrounding our sexuality. This week, you’ll learn powerful tools to clean up your sexual past; follow disciplines; and set up good boundaries so you can maintain a healthy sexual life that will create a future free of bondage.
Understanding the addicted brain is empowering. In this module, you will study the different sexual templates that have been the driving forces behind your unwanted sexual struggles. You will discover the connections between your darkest fantasies and your deepest needs. Furthermore, you will be given powerful principles on how to permanently avoid relapse. Over the next few weeks, Dr. Weiss will give you the tools to help you reclaim victory over the Waterloo of your mind.
Winning your Waterloo
Dr. Weiss will introduce you to the arousal template to help you make better sense of your sex addiction story. You will discover a part of your brain that wired you for sexual brokenness: what dictated your sexual preferences, triggers, and the type of relationships that you pursued. You’ll be given tools to rewire your template for sexual wholeness. This lesson can be a real game changer for many men.
The Voice Template
The voice template, aka the fantasy template, has been one of the driving forces behind your unwanted sexual struggles. It’s the seductive voice of lust that was embedded in your brain through repeated sexual exposure and experience. But in this lesson, you’ll learn how these fantasies can serve as a tool for self revelation. You’ll discover the connections between your sexual fantasies and your deepest unmet needs.
Dismantling the Lies
Dr. Weiss will introduce you to the Meaning Template. You’ll discover how you attached meaning to the sexual experiences of your past and how those meanings perpetuated your addiction. This is a week of tearing down strongholds. You will learn how to create a new meaning template that is honoring, and pleasing to God, your wife, yourself and the women that you had been objectifying.
Relapse Ready, Part 1
Any man can become subject to relapse but, in Warpath, you will learn proactive strategies that will prepare you for the battle. You’ll learn that relapse doesn’t need to happen, but it all comes down to preparation and proactivity. Find out how to prepare ahead but also the right course of action to take should you relapse.
Relapse Ready, Part 2
God didn’t create us to be bystanders, but fighting men - ready for battle. This lesson will remind who you’re fighting for. Your wife was the greatest casualty in your battle. You can’t afford to hurt her again with a relapse. Learn how to safeguard your wife from a relapse but also how to handle her heart if you fall. This lesson has a Q&A section where real Warpath men pose their questions.
Disclosure remains to be the “Wild West” in regard to sexual betrayal recovery. With the confusion and misleading concepts surrounding full disclosure, many marriages have experienced further damage. Dr. Weiss shows us it doesn’t have to be that way. This module will equip you to do disclosure right from the get-go. You’ll be introduced to several types of disclosures that you will need to follow; as well as how to best protect your wife and your family during this delicate process. By the end of this class, you’ll be D-Day ready.
D-Day of Disclosure
Most men are at a loss when it comes to disclosure, but disclosure is a crucial part of restoring your marriage. This week, you will learn about what full disclosure is and is not. You will learn how to respond to your wife with compassion and empathy, and discover how you can guard her heart even while you’re seemingly breaking it with the facts.
By now, you have learned that disclosure is not a one-time event. There are several types of disclosures, including Day-to-Day Disclosure that keeps you in a place of living a continued exposed life. Learn how this type of disclosure encourages open dialogue between you and your wife and accelerates your emotional maturity and overall integrity.
This is a practical but comprehensive study on how to do first-time disclosure right. Unlike “full disclosure,” factual disclosure is measurable and adheres strictly to the facts. Learn the proper guidelines to avoid the pitfalls of disclosing too little or too much; the importance of having the right support and mediator; and how to prepare for “D-Day” - first time factual disclosure.
Three Other Disclosures
Dr. Weiss will teach you three other important types of disclosure: Story Disclosure; Validating Amend Disclosure; and Family Disclosure. This is a very practical and insightful lesson that answers many questions surrounding disclosure, mainly: Who should know; what to share; how and when to tell them. This episode could greatly help you avoid further damage that may take years to repair.
Let’s get practical. In this lesson, Dr. Weiss will walk you through first-time factual disclosure by role-playing a typical disclosure scenario. Furthermore, you will learn the four common ways of confrontation and how to help reestablish safety for your wife. This lesson includes a Q&A section where real Warpath men pose their raw questions to Dr. Weiss.
In the next few weeks, you’ll be trained to rewire your tendency to be “Me” focused to becoming “We” focused. This module is designed to teach you emotional literacy so you can learn to maturely handle your - and your wife’s - emotions like a real warrior of Christ. You’ll be given the building blocks needed to rebuild your ground zero so you can move into an authentic marriage and experience the fruits of healing. Dr. Weiss will give you proven disciplines to develop emotional fitness so you can restore your wife’s trust and be the hero she deserves.
Rebuilding Ground Zero
Learn how to rebuild the ground zero of your marriage - one structure at a time. In this lesson, you’ll gain a better understanding of your new reality and learn to empathize with your “Princess Warrior,” the new role your wife acquired when you dropped your sword. Regardless of what was lost in the fire of betrayal, you will discover that you can move towards an authentic and better marriage than you did before.
In this lesson, Dr. Weiss lays out the blueprint for an authentic marriage. You’ll discover the power of vulnerability and humility; learn about the three types of recoveries that are key to rebuilding your marriage; and that “happily even after” is possible.
Winning at Empathy
This week you will be reminded that hiding and medicating secrets will only stunt your growth. You will learn the steps to become a better listener; how to allow yourself to feel your feelings instead of just speaking them; and how to become your wife’s number one source for empathy. Dr. Weiss will also introduce you to a few irrefutable principles that will help develop the fruits of the Spirit in your life.
Three Types of Empathy
In this lesson, you’ll discover various types of empathy. You will gain emotional literacy; learn to identify the needs of your wife; and intentionally minister to her needs. This lesson will accelerate your emotional growth by teaching you how to understand and validate your wife’s feelings. You’ll learn how to move from a “Me” to a “We” kind of marriage that God has always intended for you
When you’re emotionally fit you can walk in the Spirit; you can manage your emotions and not be controlled by them. In this lesson, Dr. Weiss will introduce you to the “Emotional Grid” which will lay out the disciplines and principles you need to develop emotional resilience. This lesson takes a holistic approach to help you become the warrior husband - the “risen knight” - your wife has been praying for.
In Joshua chapter 6, soon after the warriors shouted a battle cry, the walls of Jericho collapsed, and they charged forth. God doesn’t just want you to move into your “Promised Land,” He wants you to help others reach theirs as well. In this module, you will declare war by reclaiming the hearts you’ve broken, while also claiming new ground in your Warpath.
Declaring War for Your Marriage
In this episode, Dr. Doug Weiss will give you his tried and true principles to restore your marriage. We will blast through intimacy roadblocks, rekindle a dying flame, and learn how to declare war for your marriage by making a small attitude adjustment.
War for Your Bedroom
Regardless of what your past is, your sexual relationship with your wife can be healed. In this episode, Dr. Weiss will give you powerful tips for better sex; help you discover yours and your wife’s sexual expressions, and introduce you to a new tool: the “sexual agreement”.
War for Your Children
Let’s face it, our children were impacted by our choices and behaviors. We now have everything in our arsenal to make it right and heal our children’s hearts. In this episode, you will learn to declare war for your children: learn to secure their perimeter; disciple them; talk to them about sex, and unlock the power of praise.
My Brothers’ Keeper
Free men free other men. Once you’ve tasted freedom from sexual sin, you’ve officially become a threat to Hell - and a target. In this exciting episode, you will learn how to declare war for your brothers and for your church. Learn how to provide hope and healing to your church and set others free.
Pick a Nation
Time to expand your territory. As important as it was to identify the areas that needed to be reclaimed, it’s equally important to identify new territories you must claim. In this episode, Dr. Weiss will teach you how to identify the ministry God has over your life and how to accelerate your warpath - your journey towards total transformation in Christ.
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