You Wont Believe What These Men Have to Say


What do men say after going through the Conquer Series?
They talk about being known instead of hiding. At the Set Free Summit in Greensboro, Bert described leading Conquer Groups and watching men change. David, whose wife discovered his secret and feared no one in the church would help, found love and support in a group instead. Ben was so marked by the blacksmith scene that he got a tattoo. Conquerors in Christ.
At the Set Free Summit, we were blown away by the stories we heard from men who had been through the Conquer Series, started their journey to freedom and are now using it to bring freedom to others.
The following men were courageous enough to share their stories on video.
Bert
Bert is a Conquer Group leader who has taken a number of men through the Conquer Series. What he has to say about how he has seen men changed through the series is incredible.
From one Conquer Group Leader to another. It is so encouraging to hear stories like this one sent to us from the Set Free Summit in Greensboro, NC last week. A big thank you to all the Conquer Group Leaders out there!
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David
David’s wife found out about his secret sin and thought that there would be no one in the church willing to help him, but when he joined Bert’s Conquer Group, he found love and support.
David shares,
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We have a God who is bigger than our problems, He works in the hearts of men through Conquer Groups that meet everyday around the world.
We thank this Conqueror in Christ for bravely sharing his story with us!
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Ben
Ben works with Josh D McDowell Ministries, who are doing some incredible work to help college aged students deal with pornography. You won’t believe what Ben did after being impacted by the blacksmith scene from the Conquer Series.
Ben was so impacted by the Conquer Series that he got a tattoo. Regardless of what you think of tattoos, metaphorically, God is branding the hearts of men, breaking them free from the bondage of porn and giving them a new identity. These men are Conquerors in Christ, Restorers of Men!
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If you have ever struggled with pornography or sexual sin, you will know how hard it can be to even admit out loud that you are struggling. We are so grateful for these men openly sharing their stories of redemption and hope with us.
If you are in the cycle of a struggle with pornography and long to be able to share in the freedom that these men now have, then find out more about the series they went through, the Conquer Series.

Writing at the intersection of faith and neuroscience to help men and women break destructive cycles and walk in lasting freedom.
More articles by Jeremy Wiles →Frequently Asked Questions
What is a Conquer Group?
A Conquer Group is the small accountability group where men work through the Conquer Series together. Groups meet every day around the world, led by men who have already walked the road. It is where the hiding stops and honesty starts, because you were never meant to fight this battle by yourself. Leaders who once needed help now take other men through it.
Why is it so hard to admit you struggle with porn?
If you have ever struggled with pornography or sexual sin, you know how hard it is to even say it out loud. Shame keeps the secret sealed, and the secret keeps the cycle running. That is exactly why the men who spoke on camera at the Set Free Summit matter. Every one of them had to say it out loud first before anything changed.
Will anyone at church actually help me with porn?
Many men assume no one in their church would be willing to help, and that fear keeps them silent for years. One man in this story believed exactly that when his wife found out about his secret sin. Instead he walked into a Conquer Group and found love and support. We have a God who is bigger than our problems, and He works through men willing to stay.
Does the Conquer Series help college students too?
Yes. One of the men featured here works with a campus ministry doing tremendous work helping college aged students face pornography head on. The battle does not wait until a man is married or settled, and neither does the help. The same teaching that frees a husband of twenty years reaches a nineteen year old who has never known life without a screen.
Can a man who got free from porn help other men get free?
That is the pattern. The men at the Set Free Summit had been through the Conquer Series, started their own journey to freedom, and are now using it to bring freedom to others. Conquerors in Christ become restorers of men. Your story of redemption is not just yours; it is the map somebody else is desperate for.

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