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5 Reasons Why Porn Use Increases During ChristmasPorn Recovery

5 Reasons Why Porn Use Increases During Christmas

The slow-down most people welcome at Christmas is exactly what makes it dangerous. Search data shows porn viewing spikes during Christmas week, with December 27 the single most likely day of the year. Free time, family stress, exhaustion, loneliness and new devices all pull one way. Rest is good. Unguarded rest is not.

Jeremy Wiles
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How Viewing Porn Is Wounding Your Wife & Hurting Your FamilyPorn Recovery

How Viewing Porn Is Wounding Your Wife & Hurting Your Family

A wife needs to know she is protected and that she is cherished. Porn makes both almost impossible to believe. Research ties it to marital distress, lost intimacy and divorce, and children feel the tension in a house long before they understand it. The encouraging part: a sword aimed the wrong way can be turned around.

Jeremy Wiles
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Here Are 5 Benefits To Giving Up PornPorn Recovery

Here Are 5 Benefits To Giving Up Porn

You will not shut the laptop tonight and wake up free tomorrow. Recovery takes time and effort, and it will hurt along the way. But a clearer brain, relationships that are no longer held at arm's length, self respect you had written off, and dozens of reclaimed hours a month are waiting on the other side of this fight.

Jeremy Wiles
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4 Ways Porn Is Hurting Our ChildrenPorn Recovery

4 Ways Porn Is Hurting Our Children

Children are growing up in a fully connected world, and porn has quietly become their sex education. Many studies put first exposure around age eleven, and under-tens now make up a fifth of youth porn viewing. Here is what it does to their attitudes, development, ability to cope and behaviour, and what parents can do now.

Jeremy Wiles
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Give Thanks For The Progress You’ve MadePorn Recovery

Give Thanks For The Progress You’ve Made

The fight for freedom trains your eyes on every failure and every weak moment, until you cannot see the ground you have actually gained. Scripture keeps telling God's people to stop and remember. Here are five ways to mark the progress you have made, even while the battle is still going.

Jeremy Wiles
7 min readRead
4 Tips To Help You Avoid Porn This ThanksgivingPorn Recovery

4 Tips To Help You Avoid Porn This Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving looks like food, football and family. For a man fighting porn, a day surrounded by people can feel like pressure with nowhere to hide, which is why one major porn site's second slowest day of the year is Thanksgiving Thursday and its second busiest is the Monday after. Here is how to get through it free.

Jeremy Wiles
7 min readRead
Did You Know Women Struggle With Porn TooPorn Recovery

Did You Know Women Struggle With Porn Too

She leaned forward when the pastor said the word from the pulpit. For one moment it looked like help had finally arrived. Then every sentence that followed was addressed to the men, and she slid back down into her seat. Half the church is still carrying this alone, and silence is not protecting anyone.

Kayla Sullivan
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5 Reasons You Should Use The Conquer Series This FallPorn Recovery

5 Reasons You Should Use The Conquer Series This Fall

Men's breakfasts and retreats are good. They rarely reach the thing your men are fighting every day. With 68 percent of church-going men regularly viewing porn, and over half of church leaders admitting the same, the question is not whether this is in your church. It is whether you address it now or leave it another year.

Jeremy Wiles
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Guarding Against Temptation In A Sensual WorldPorn Recovery

Guarding Against Temptation In A Sensual World

The battle begins in the mind, moves to the eyes, and grows the longer you gaze. Then come the excuses, the return visits, the anger when someone suggests you are wrong, and one day a life you barely recognise. Scripture is full of men who walked that road. It is also full of the grace that brought them back.

Kayla Sullivan
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From Victim To Victor: Rediscovering Your Identity In ChristPorn Recovery

From Victim To Victor: Rediscovering Your Identity In Christ

I am not good enough. Whatever version of that lie you carry, whether it sounds like unwanted, worthless, or lost cause, it was planted in a moment of pain and it has been steering your decisions ever since. You are not the sum of your mistakes or of what was done to you. There is a road from victim to victor.

Kayla Sullivan
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How Toxic Porn Is Poisoning SocietyPorn Recovery

How Toxic Porn Is Poisoning Society

Toxic is not a figure of speech here. It means poisonous, destructive, unsafe, deadly. It takes something whole and breaks it down so gradually that nobody notices until the damage is structural. That is exactly what pornography is doing to our homes, our marriages, and our churches right now.

Kayla Sullivan
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Milestones: Remembering How Far You’ve ComePorn Recovery

Milestones: Remembering How Far You’ve Come

Roman roads were lined with stones so travelers would know they were still headed the right way. Freedom needs the same thing. When the wilderness gets long, the memory of what God has already done is what keeps a man from turning back toward the very thing that enslaved him.

Jeremy Wiles
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Is There a Connection Between Depression and Porn?Porn Recovery

Is There a Connection Between Depression and Porn?

Does pornography trigger depression, or does depression send people looking for pornography? The research points both ways, and the loop they form is what makes it so hard to break. Here is how it works, and where it can be interrupted.

Jeremy Wiles
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The Impact of Sin On Future GenerationsPorn Recovery

The Impact of Sin On Future Generations

The finest deception ever sold is the idea that what you do in private stays in private. It does not. Someone down the line will either reap the benefit of your good decisions or pay for your poor ones. The encouraging half of that truth is that the pattern can be broken, and you are the one who gets to break it.

Kayla Sullivan
6 min readRead
Helping First Responders Heal From TraumaPorn Recovery

Helping First Responders Heal From Trauma

They run toward the fire, the wreck, the worst day of someone else's life. But who responds when the responder is the one bleeding on the inside? Research shows how many carry post-traumatic stress in silence, why fear keeps them quiet, and how a band of brothers can help them heal.

Kayla Sullivan
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Why Fall Is the Best Time to Help Men Break Free From PornPorn Recovery

Why Fall Is the Best Time to Help Men Break Free From Porn

Summer scatters a man's schedule and leaves him fighting temptation with no one beside him. Autumn changes that. As routines settle and the last months of the year come into view, your church has a window to gather men, open an honest conversation about porn, and walk them toward real freedom.

Jeremy Wiles
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How You Are Being Robbed In Broad DaylightPorn Recovery

How You Are Being Robbed In Broad Daylight

Thieves work while the street is empty and nobody is watching. That is exactly how pornography operates in a man's life: it promised everything, it left you cold, and it keeps taking your hours, your rest, your family and your walk with God. Here is what it has taken, and how you reclaim it.

Jeremy Wiles
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These Are Powerful Tools To Prevent RelapsePorn Recovery

These Are Powerful Tools To Prevent Relapse

You said never again, and then you found yourself standing in the same place. That is not proof something is wrong with you. It is proof that willpower was never the weapon. Grace, honest brothers, and a few practical tools can help you see a relapse coming long before it ever arrives.

Jeremy Wiles
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Don’t Miss This Before National Back To Church SundayPorn Recovery

Don’t Miss This Before National Back To Church Sunday

The doors open, the pews fill, and the small groups start again, and every man walking in carries the summer in with him. Most churches have no plan for the struggle sitting in the third row. Here is what the numbers say about porn in the church, and why “we’ll pray about it” cannot be the whole strategy.

Kayla Sullivan
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Learning To Rebuild Your Ground ZeroPorn Recovery

Learning To Rebuild Your Ground Zero

Ground Zero was never restored to what it had been. It was rebuilt stronger. A marriage exposed by porn works much the same way. It will not be the marriage you had, but denial can give way to responsibility, honesty can replace hiding, and the wounds underneath can finally be dealt with. Not alone.

Kayla Sullivan
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Forbidden Discussions: What Children Want To KnowPorn Recovery

Forbidden Discussions: What Children Want To Know

Two Sunday school teachers were asked about porn by children barely old enough for school. Their instinct was to deflect and leave it to the parents, until they realised the parents were having those conversations, just not with their children. If we will not answer, the world will, and it is already talking.

Kayla Sullivan
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Healing Beyond Betrayal From My Husbands Porn AddictionPorn Recovery

Healing Beyond Betrayal From My Husbands Porn Addiction

She welcomed porn into her home believing it would help her marriage. Years later it had cost her trust, her sense of worth and very nearly her family. This is one wife's unvarnished account of discovery, separation and the night her husband finally came to the end of himself, and why she no longer calls herself a victim.

Kayla Sullivan
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How to Get Over Porn and Find Lasting FreedomPorn Recovery

How to Get Over Porn and Find Lasting Freedom

If willpower were enough you would already be free. Getting over porn takes three things most men try to skip: receiving grace before you have earned it, understanding what the habit did to your brain, and refusing to fight it alone.

Jeremy Wiles
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What Happens to a Family When a Parent Struggles With Porn?Porn Recovery

What Happens to a Family When a Parent Struggles With Porn?

No one uses porn in a vacuum. Repeated behavior carves automatic trails in the brain, and those trails shape how a husband treats his wife and how a father shows up for his kids. Here is what the struggle costs a marriage, what children absorb from it, and how a family reclaims what was taken.

Kayla Sullivan
9 min readRead
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