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Parenting8 Songs For When You’re Feeling Broken
Music plays a profoundly healing and deeply spiritual role in our lives. But why is that? I believe it is because we were created to worship God, in deed and in song. When we sing to God we are...
Porn RecoveryDefeating Porn By Understanding Your Brain’s Arousal Template
Have you tried everything you know to do, and yet you still cannot seem to get free from the grip of porn? You’ve cried, you’ve prayed, you’ve smashed your computer in the driveway...
Porn RecoveryWhy Men Cannot Quit Porn Alone: The Power of Accountability
Why do so many men struggle to quit porn alone? Pornography thrives in secrecy and isolation, while lasting recovery often requires honesty, accountability, healthy relationships, and a plan for addressing the triggers and deeper issues behind the behavior. Learn why connection with God and other men can be critical to lasting freedom.
Porn RecoveryWhy I Brought The Conquer Series To My Church
We received this powerful testimony from one of our Conquer Series Leader’s who has stepped up to the challenge, taken up his sword and is leading other men to victory in Christ! I had been reading Charisma Magazine online for several years...
Porn RecoveryBiblical Blueprint For Manhood: Spiritual Leader Of Your Home
The Bible leaves no uncertainty that a man needs to be the spiritual leader in his home. This is an awesome responsibility and one that creates much anxiety for many men, especially those struggling...
Porn RecoveryHow To Disciple Men Into Leaders
Most church leaders would agree they face a constant problem of finding men who are willing to get involved. Not just in leadership positions, but in many roles within the church. But the need for strong leaders continues to grow...
Porn RecoveryWhat Does Proactive Accountability Look Like?
Every day, we’re at war with the enemy. He desires to steal, kill, and destroy and is ultimately after our souls. But because it’s not enough for him to win us over...
Porn RecoveryCorn Is Becoming A Serious Problem For Christian Men
The United Nations Commission on Addictions has announced that the growth of corn use and addiction cases has reached epidemic levels. Efforts to increase public awareness of this devastating problem are being launched...
Porn Recovery3 Traits That Make A Great Leader
What makes someone a great leader? According to a study out of the University of Texas at San Antonio, the most important quality is confidence. What is Confidence? It’s important to note that confidence can sometimes be confused with arrogance...
Porn RecoveryHow To Delete Porn From Your Brain
In a society bent towards the microwave mentality of “gotta have it now”, it would...
Porn RecoveryWhen Trying Harder Isn’t Enough
You vowed to yourself that you wouldn’t and promised your wife that it was over. You’ve met with your pastor and confessed. And you even told a few of your closest guy friends...
Porn RecoveryWorld Champion Bull Rider Conquers More Than Bulls
Scott Mendes is a World Champion Bullrider who rode some of the fiercest bulls of his time, including the world’s most dangerous fighting bull, Bodacious...
Porn RecoveryHow To Read The Bible Like A Conqueror
The word “conqueror” conjures up an image of a soldier with the resolve of steel, fully armed for battle, with weapon drawn. The Bible calls us to be “more than a conqueror” in Christ. We are to be fierce in our faith...
Porn RecoveryPorn Viewing Spikes Over Christmas
The latest review of Google Search Trends shows that the week of Christmas brings a spike of porn related search traffic in the US every year...
Porn RecoveryFull Disclosure: Why You’re Only As Sick As Your Secret
Why Your Full Disclosure Is Non-Negotiable You have finally admitted to yourself that you struggle with pornography. You have even taken the first step towards overcoming porn by joining a small group that is using the Conquer Series...
Porn RecoveryTemptation Increases During Extended Times At Home
When are men more likely to view porn? Current issue facing our society can be a trap if we do not realize we are in a battle. With more and more people now having to stay at home...
Betrayal TraumaHave Yourself a Dysfunctional Little Christmas
The author begins with enthusiasm for a grand Christmas celebration but confesses to the overwhelming stress and anxiety that accompanies the elaborate plans. Reflecting on childhood experiences, they share how Christmas became a trigger for emotional responses and a way to recreate a sense of peace. The post explores the journey of healing from past wounds, the subconscious desire to provide a perfect Christmas for their children, and the realization that perfect peace is found in Jesus, transcending the need for a flawless holiday season.
Porn RecoveryBreaking Free From Porn By Understanding Your Past
Have you ever struggled with something, and you just couldn’t manage to get free? It could be something dark, such as pornography, anger, jealousy, food addiction, a gambling problem, or excessive drinking...
Porn RecoveryBecome The Dad Your Child Needs By Giving Up Porn
The role of a mom and dad has always been vital to the well-being of a child. But that role has taken on a new level of intensity with the proliferation of sexually explicit content...
Porn RecoveryHow To Be A Lover AND A Fighter
This post is a heartfelt message directed at men dealing with the aftermath of infidelity, offering insights from a woman who has experienced betrayal trauma. The author emphasizes the importance of a man fighting for his marriage, understanding and prioritizing his wife's healing, and actively pursuing a path of recovery and transformation. The message encourages empathy, humility, and relentless pursuit of healing and restoration for both individuals involved.
MarriageWhat to Do If My Husband Hides Porn: 10 Signs to Watch For
Wondering what to do if your husband hides porn? Secret pornography use can damage trust, intimacy, and connection in a marriage. Learn the signs to watch for, how hidden porn use may affect your relationship, and practical steps you can take toward honesty, healing, and restoration.
Porn RecoveryC.S. Lewis On Porn And Masturbation
C. S. Lewis (1898-1963) was one of the most famous and prolific Christian writers and scholars in modern history. His popular writings include The Chronicles of Narnia, The Screwtape Letters, Mere Christianity, and...
Porn RecoveryA Letter To My Porn-Watching Husband
Dear Husband, I discovered your porn, again. To say my heart is crushed would be an understatement. Instead, I feel like someone pulled my heart out of my chest...
Porn RecoveryWhat Keeps Men Trapped In Porn? 3 Steps Towards Freedom
It starts out so simple for someone who is hooked on pornography. They probably saw an air-brushed photo of a model online or in a magazine when they were children. Over the years they would spend more time looking at porn...