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Who’s Looking at Porn? The Results May Surprise YouPorn Recovery

Who’s Looking at Porn? The Results May Surprise You

One major porn site publishes its traffic every year like a trophy. Read the numbers closely and a different picture appears: the people looking are younger, more female, and far more churched than most congregations want to believe. Here is who is really watching — and what actually helps them get free.

Jeremy Wiles
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The Fallout Of Porn: How The Church Can Help Hurting WivesPorn Recovery

The Fallout Of Porn: How The Church Can Help Hurting Wives

She looks fine on Sunday morning. Inside she is sorting through doubt, fear and questions no one has offered to help her carry. As more men step into freedom and tell their wives the truth, a wave of hurting women is coming to our churches. Here is how to be ready for them.

Jeremy Wiles
9 min readRead
Husbands, Here’s How To Love Your Wife WellPorn Recovery

Husbands, Here’s How To Love Your Wife Well

The images on the screen can never love you back. Your wife can. If you want your marriage to be the strongest thing in your life after your walk with God, it will take more than quitting a habit — it will take servanthood, compassion and sacrifice, practised on ordinary days.

Jeremy Wiles
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6 Lies Men Believe When They Struggle With PornPorn Recovery

6 Lies Men Believe When They Struggle With Porn

The struggle with porn is lonely, secretive, and built on lies a man tells himself to make it survivable. The longer he repeats them, the more they read as truth, and the tighter the grip gets. Here are the six that come up most.

Jeremy Wiles
7 min readRead
Men’s Group for Porn Addiction: Why No Man Fights AlonePorn Recovery

Men’s Group for Porn Addiction: Why No Man Fights Alone

A men’s group for porn addiction provides accountability, encouragement, and a safe place to break the secrecy that keeps pornography struggles hidden. Learn how connecting with other men can support recovery, spiritual growth, and lasting freedom from porn.

Kayla Sullivan
14 min readRead
How The On-Demand Era Is Changing Attitudes Towards SexPorn Recovery

How The On-Demand Era Is Changing Attitudes Towards Sex

We have been trained to expect every craving answered in seconds, and that training does not stop at the checkout page. It follows us into how we think about sex, patience, and each other. Here is how on-demand living feeds the porn struggle, and why God still leads His people on the longer road.

Kayla Sullivan
9 min readRead
Learn How Dr Doug Weiss Conquered Sex Addiction (VIDEO)Porn Recovery

Learn How Dr Doug Weiss Conquered Sex Addiction (VIDEO)

He is a licensed psychologist, a nationally known author and speaker, and the founder of Heart to Heart Counseling Center. He is also a man who conquered sexual addiction himself and has stayed sober for more than thirty years. What he offers men is not theory but a pragmatic, hopeful path: become a conqueror one day at a time.

Jeremy Wiles
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Prominent OBGYN Dr Joe McIlhaney Addresses PornPorn Recovery

Prominent OBGYN Dr Joe McIlhaney Addresses Porn

Hooking up is the easy part. Unhooking is where the damage shows. Decades of medically accurate research into sexual health say the bonds formed by sex outside marriage do not release cleanly — and that same body of research is part of why the Conquer Series fights this battle with science as well as Scripture.

Jeremy Wiles
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4 Ways To Stay Pure And Porn FreePorn Recovery

4 Ways To Stay Pure And Porn Free

You cannot have a victory without a battle, and a painful, uncertain season hands you one. Porn always looks for the moment you are hurting and offers to medicate it. These four steps — accept, battle, commit, decide — are simple on purpose, and men have used them to hold ground when everything else felt unstable.

Jeremy Wiles
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Drivers Distracted By Porn Cause Fatal AccidentsPorn Recovery

Drivers Distracted By Porn Cause Fatal Accidents

Three crashes, several people dead, and in each one a driver watching porn instead of the road. These are not stories about bad luck. They are stories about how far an addiction will push a man before he stops being able to see the risk at all, and about the wake-up call nobody should have to wait for.

Kayla Sullivan
5 min readRead
Serial Killer Ted Bundy Describes Dangers Of PornPorn Recovery

Serial Killer Ted Bundy Describes Dangers Of Porn

Most people who watch porn will never commit a crime, and this is not an argument that they will. But the research linking pornography to sexual violence is hard to wave away, and so is the escalation men in addiction describe: always something harder, always more. Here is the evidence, and why soft porn is not harmless.

Jeremy Wiles
6 min readRead
Why There Is No Such Thing as Ethical PornPorn Recovery

Why There Is No Such Thing as Ethical Porn

Producers now market 'ethical porn' - consensual, fairly paid, violence-free. Researchers call it corporate whitewashing of the same commercial sex industry. Here is why the label does not survive scrutiny, and why even on its own terms it does not change what porn does to the person watching.

Jeremy Wiles
7 min readRead
How To Prepare Your Kids For A Porn Saturated WorldPorn Recovery

How To Prepare Your Kids For A Porn Saturated World

A dark bedroom, a bright screen, and a fourteen-year-old who had quietly worked his way around every filter on his phone. Most parents find out this way. The numbers say your children will meet porn whether you plan for it or not, so the only real question is what you have built into them before it arrives.

Jeremy Wiles
4 min readRead
Paul Cole Founding Pastor Of C3 Church Talks About PornPorn Recovery

Paul Cole Founding Pastor Of C3 Church Talks About Porn

A profile of a leader who has spent his life calling men to discover their manhood in Christ, and who now names pornography as one of the greatest threats the church is facing today.

Jeremy Wiles
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How These Men Are Getting Over PornPorn Recovery

How These Men Are Getting Over Porn

Some of these men fought for twenty years. They opened up to pastors, worked through programs, read and prayed daily, and still could not get free. What finally moved was not their effort. It was discovering what was underneath the habit, and refusing to face it alone any longer.

Jeremy Wiles
4 min readRead
A Decade Of Regrets: Pain, Porn, And Personal ChoicesPorn Recovery

A Decade Of Regrets: Pain, Porn, And Personal Choices

A lot can happen in ten years. A new job, a house, a family. So can the exposure of a secret, a wife's heartache and a career lost. One wife tells what a decade of living with porn cost her marriage, the day her daughter walked in, and the choice that finally turned a sinking ship around.

Kayla Sullivan
7 min readRead
4 Awesome Ideas To Promote Your Conquer GroupPorn Recovery

4 Awesome Ideas To Promote Your Conquer Group

Announce a group for guys with a porn problem and you will clear the room. Frame it as a series every man in the church needs and the seats fill. Here are four approaches churches have used to fill a Conquer Group, from the Sunday announcement to a promo video the men in your pews actually relate to.

Jeremy Wiles
4 min readRead
How This Woman Is Helping Men Find Freedom From PornPorn Recovery

How This Woman Is Helping Men Find Freedom From Porn

Say the words sex addiction in a crowded room and watch what happens. Eyes drop. Someone blinks back tears. Half the room is calculating whether anyone knows. That silence is not protecting anybody, and one church decided to end it — first for the men, then for the wives carrying it with them.

Kayla Sullivan
6 min readRead
The Tragic Consequences of Sextortion: A Parent’s WarningParenting

The Tragic Consequences of Sextortion: A Parent’s Warning

A stranger poses as a girl online, coaxes out a photo, then names a price. Law enforcement logged more than 7,000 reports of online sextortion of minors in a single year, and a dozen-plus of those victims did not survive it. Here is how the scam works, why the porn industry feeds it, and the conversation worth having tonight.

Marcos Peres
6 min readRead
Porn & Sex Addiction: Why It’s Not Just A Man’s ProblemPorn Recovery

Porn & Sex Addiction: Why It’s Not Just A Man’s Problem

One in three porn viewers is a woman, and most churches are still building help only for men. Scripture never treated this as a male-only struggle. It tells the stories plainly and answers them with grace rather than stones. Here is what the numbers say, what shame does to a woman who is hiding, and where she can find help.

Kayla Sullivan
11 min readRead
This Is For The Heartbroken Wife…Porn Recovery

This Is For The Heartbroken Wife…

Heartbroken, angry, wondering if you were somehow not enough. If you have just discovered your husband's porn addiction, every one of those thoughts is lying to you. Here is an honest word from a wife who walked this road, plus the first steps toward your own healing.

Kayla Sullivan
5 min readRead
Marriage Recovery: Husbands Helping Wives Heal From BetrayalPorn Recovery

Marriage Recovery: Husbands Helping Wives Heal From Betrayal

A man gets free and assumes life goes back to normal. His wife already knows there is no normal to go back to. That gap is where a lot of recovering marriages stall. Here is what a betrayed wife actually needs from her husband, why hurrying her grief backfires, and the uncomfortable question that proves you will stay.

Kayla Sullivan
7 min readRead
Science Proves Premarital Sex Rewires The Brain (VIDEO)Porn Recovery

Science Proves Premarital Sex Rewires The Brain (VIDEO)

Glue two sheets of paper together, then tear them apart, and neither one comes away clean. That is close to what sex does inside the brain. Dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin were designed to bond you to one person for life. Here is what happens when those chemicals fire outside marriage, or in front of a screen.

Jeremy Wiles
5 min readRead
God’s Not Done Here YetPorn Recovery

God’s Not Done Here Yet

She almost did not walk into that church on a Thursday night. Eighteen years of her husband’s hidden sexual sin had come out the evening before, and she had already packed her heart to leave. Then the first episode opened with five words that she grabbed like a lifeline: God’s not done with you.

Kristina Douberly
6 min readRead
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